This is going to be Part 1 of a three-part post I do this week on SXSW. That’s right: A series! We’re gonna serialize all over the place, y’all.
Lessons from SXSW
In all seriousness (series-ness … heh), I came up with the idea to write these “Lessons from SXSW” while driving around in my car yesterday, because the conference felt particularly refreshing for me this year. While I certainly don’t speak for all bloggers everywhere, it feels like blogging itself is at the age where its children have grown up. We’ve matured, we have better perspective, and those of us who do this seem to be expanding our dreams beyond: “I want a big HUGE blog.”
Rather, we realize that bigness is only one goal (and if it’s yours, more power to you), but the longer you blog, you discover skills you didn’t know you had. And those can shed light on other personal goals that had been lying there all along, in stealth mode.
This brings me to Friday, when I presented on a panel called “The Future of Lifestyle Media.” There have been several terrific recaps written about it already (here are my favorites: Fuji Files, CultureMap, Austin360), and one thing that seemed to impact all of us, including me, the moderator, was something Grace Bonney (Design*Sponge) said:
“Know what you are good at, and put those skills to use.”
If there’s anything I’ve learned from this hobby/sometimes job we call blogging, it’s that I’m really, really not good at everything. To illustrate, let me take you to the Wayback Machine, where we can appreciate together one of Austin Eavesdropper’s old posts: The Flaming Lips, October 2010. I’ll give you a moment, to head over there right now, wait for it to load, and have a good laugh.
That’s some pretty killer photography, huh? This one is 40% back-of-someone’s-head. I knew I wasn’t that great at photography when I started Austin Eavesdropper, but I was motivated to learn. I also found out that I’m not skilled at Google+ (proof), and guess what? Still not motivated! Oh well.
Through Austin Eavesdropper though, I discovered (accidentally) that I really loved making these freaking videos. AETV. I dig the collaboration, the fact that it’s a team effort, and talking to funny / interesting people. All these years doing Austin Eavesdropper, I had it in my head that I was a WRITER! I write and that is how I express myself! But I had an emotional melt-down of sorts last summer that opened my mind, and that led to those videos, and now that suddenly feels extremely right too, in addition to the writing.
Yes. In the middle of a restaurant, much to the chagrin of my poor husband and our poorer waiter. I just sat there and sobbed in response to a very simple question, when Ross asked innocently and innocuously how my day was.
“Why do I even do what I do?” I moaned. “I’m in front of the computer all day for work, and then my hobby involves MORE computer time? What’s up with THAT?” (Gulps wine) “I don’t like staring at the computer that long!” (More wine) “And I just-” (more wine) “just-” (more wine) don’t know if any of it’s worth it!” (Dramatic emptying of entire wine glass).
This all came rushing back to me during the panel on Friday, when someone asked about how you build and make relationships in your community. Grace builds community in a different way: She hosts Biz Ladies luncheons, she started doing these potlucks with other women entrepreneurs in Brooklyn. Camille on our panel builds community by featuring other bloggers on her site, involving them in her HGTV.com shoots, and working with incredible artists on events here in town. Andrew on our panel literally directs a company that’s all about making creative commerce relationships in your community.
And me? I like connecting to my community by interviewing the people from it. And also by watching them, describing them, and fleshing out their little stories here on Austin Eavesdropper.
“Make the thing you’re best at the focus of your blog,” said Grace on Friday. Wise words. Don’t we all secretly assume sometimes that we’re supposed to be doing everything perfectly on our blogs? Guess what, you don’t have to. In fact, you shouldn’t. Find the skill you are wonderful at, put it front and center, and let the rest of the stuff create opportunities for you to collaborate.